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		<title>A farewell of sorts</title>
		<link>http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2010/10/all-our-lives/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Oct 2010 14:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen R</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As you may have noticed, recently I&#8217;ve been involved with an exciting new project. I&#8217;ve teamed up with Marysia of the Nonviolent Choice Directory to start All Our Lives. This project has been a long time coming. It started back in 2008, when Marysia and I shared our frustration that there was no longer any [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As you may have noticed, recently I&#8217;ve been involved with an exciting new project. I&#8217;ve teamed up with Marysia of the Nonviolent Choice Directory to start <a href="http://www.allourlives.org/">All Our Lives</a>.  This project has been a long time coming. It started <a href="http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2008/02/exciting-local-news/#comments">back in 2008</a>, when Marysia and I shared our frustration that there was no longer any organization that advocated for contraception, sex education, and other vital needs without advocating for abortion as well.</p>
<p>Others, like <a href="http://lamom.blogs.com/lamom/">LAMom</a> and Cecilia Brown of <a href="http://www.plagal.org/">PLAGAL</a> gave their support, and we launched in March of this year.</p>
<p>We call ourselves a &#8220;reproductive peace&#8221; organization, which combines principles of the reproductive justice movement and the consistent life ethic. We reject the violence of abortion, and instead work for all women to have the power to make all nonviolent choices about their sexual and reproductive lives.</p>
<p>If that sounds interesting, please visit our <a href="http://www.allourlives.org/">web site</a> and get involved. In particular, we&#8217;d love to have help getting the Nonviolent Choice Directory ported over to the new site.</p>
<p>This blog will stay up indefinitely &#8212; I have the server space, and it&#8217;s easy enough to maintain &#8212; but I have no plans to add to it. Thank you to everyone who has read and commented over the years; it&#8217;s meant a lot to me to know that there are other people out there who share some of my beliefs and frustrations. :)  I hope to see you on the new site!</p>
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		<title>Donate for prenatal care in Nebraska</title>
		<link>http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2010/03/donate-for-prenatal-care-in-nebraska/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 19:16:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen R</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week, I posted about women in Nebraska who have lost public funding for their prenatal care due to immigration politics.&#160; Fear and uncertainty are driving some of these women to consider abortion because they&#39;re not sure how they&#39;ll be able to bear and raise their children.&#160; Now there is a way that you can [...]]]></description>
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	Last week, I posted about <a href="http://www.allourlives.org/node/21">women in Nebraska who have lost public funding for their prenatal care due to immigration politics</a>.&nbsp; Fear and uncertainty are driving some of these women to consider abortion because they&#39;re not sure how they&#39;ll be able to bear and raise their children.&nbsp; Now there is a way that you can help. All Our Lives has created a charity badge for donations to One World Community Health Centers, Inc., aka Indian-Chicano Health Center, Inc., of Omaha, Nebraska.</p>
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	If you wish, you may designate your gift specifically for prenatal care when you make your donation. Please donate if you can; if you can&#39;t, please help by spreading the word!</p>
<p><i>(Crossposted to <a href="http://allourlives.org/node/22">All Our Lives</a>)</i></p>
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		<title>Secular, pro-life, sex ed</title>
		<link>http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2010/02/secular-pro-life-sex-ed/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 05:27:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen R</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Secular Prolife has a new project under way: a secular, pro-life sex ed program. For more information or to participate, probably the best thing to do is to join their Facebook group. I keep meaning to post about Secular Prolife. It&#8217;s an organization open to nonbelievers, as well as to religious believers who see the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.secularprolife.org/">Secular Prolife</a> has a new project under way: a secular, pro-life sex ed program.  For more information or to participate, probably the best thing to do is to join <a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?v=info&#038;gid=54623206855">their Facebook group</a>.</p>
<p>I keep meaning to post about Secular Prolife.  It&#8217;s an organization open to nonbelievers, as well as to religious believers who see the value in arguing against abortion from a secular point of view. It&#8217;s explicitly pro-sex-ed (obviously) and pro-contraception.  The group doesn&#8217;t take an official stance on LGBT rights, but its founder, Kelsey Hazzard, is strongly in favor and it&#8217;s certainly an LGBT-friendly environment.  It&#8217;s come a long way in a short time and has <a href="http://secularprolife.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=4&#038;t=315">a lot more in store</a>.</p>
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		<title>Consistent Life Action Alert</title>
		<link>http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2010/01/consistent-life-action-alert-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 19:16:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen R</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From Consistent Life (in a roundabout way: I&#8217;m the one working on this project for them): The Center for Reproductive Rights is beginning a campaign to end the Hyde Amendment and bring back Federal funding of abortion. One of their tactics is a series of videos in which supporters question why tax dollars can&#8217;t be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From Consistent Life (in a roundabout way: I&#8217;m the one working on this project for them):</p>
<blockquote><p>The Center for Reproductive Rights is beginning a campaign to end the Hyde Amendment  and bring back Federal funding of abortion.  One of their tactics is a <a href="http://reproductiverights.org/en/feature/no-abortion-ban">series of videos</a> in which supporters question why tax dollars can&#8217;t be spent on abortion but can be spent on things <b>they</b> disagree with, such as war.</p>
<p>This would be a great chance for Consistent Life to counter with a video pointing out all the different ways in which the destruction of life is promoted by our tax dollars, and emphasizing that we can and should oppose all of them.</p>
<p>To contribute, record a video of no more than 30 seconds in which you discuss what life-destroying programs you don&#8217;t want your tax dollars spent on, and/or what life-affirming programs you would like them spent on instead.  Preferred format is .mov, although .avi is also acceptable.  Then, contact <a href="mailto:video@consistent-life.org">video@consistent-life.org</a> for uploading instructions.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Consistent Life Action Alert</title>
		<link>http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2010/01/consistent-life-action-alert/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 22:28:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen R</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From Consistent Life: We try to have a presence each year at the annual March for Life held in Washington, DC on or near the anniversary of Roe v Wade&#8217;s passage. The main organizer is not sympathetic, and has threatened several of our member groups with arrest in the past, but we definitely receive much [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From <a href="http://www.consistent-life.org/">Consistent Life</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>We try to have a presence each year at the annual March for Life held in Washington, DC on or near the anniversary of Roe v Wade&#8217;s passage. The main organizer is not sympathetic, and has threatened several of our member groups with arrest in the past, but we definitely receive much more positive than negative vibes from fellow marchers. We need to show the pro-life community and the watching world that many who are pro-life on abortion have a different perspective than the organizer.</p>
<p>Join us on Friday, January 22, 2010 between 11:30 AM and Noon in front of the Sculpture Garden, on Constitution Ave. NW near 7th St. The location is across from the National Archives and about 2 blocks from the Archives Metro station. We will proceed together with our banner from there to the rally and march.</p>
<p>RSVP not required but it is helpful to know who plans to come. You can contact our President Bill Samuel at <a href="mailto:president@consistent-life.org">president@consistent-life.org</a> to say you&#8217;re coming or with any questions. Bill can be reached by cell phone at xxx-xxx-xxxx during the March if you&#8217;re having trouble connecting with the CL contingent [number not posted here -- please email Bill if you need his number -jr]</p>
<p>Consistent Life member group Democrats for Life of America (DFLA) is  having a breakfast that morning, 9-11 AM, at the Holiday Inn Capitol,  550 C Street SW, Washington, D.C. 20024. (One block from the L&#8217;Enfant  Plaza Metro Station.) $30 paid at the door; proceeds benefit DFLA. </p></blockquote>
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		<title>Links on the Tiller murder</title>
		<link>http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2009/06/links-on-the-tiller-murder/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 18:54:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen R</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am working 14-hour days, so in lieu of writing, I link. Some people, (pro-choice and anti-abortion alike) argue that if pro-lifers really believe that abortion takes the life of a human being, then killing abortion providers is a morally acceptable, or even imperative, action. Shared Sacrifice published my response in The Fallacy of Justifiable [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am working 14-hour days, so in lieu of writing, I link.</p>
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<li>Some people, (pro-choice and anti-abortion alike) argue that if pro-lifers really believe that abortion takes the life of a human being, then killing abortion providers is a morally acceptable, or even imperative, action. <a href="http://sharedsacrifice.us">Shared Sacrifice</a> published my response in <a href="http://sharedsacrifice.us/June4Roth_Homicide.html">The Fallacy of Justifiable Homicide</a>.</li>
<li>Consistent Life released a <a href="http://www.consistent-life.org/news.html#Tiller">Statement on Killing of Dr. Tiller</a>.</li>
<li>Marysia asked pro-lifers to commit themselves to nonviolence in deed, word, and thought in <a href="http://nonviolentchoice.blogspot.com/2009/05/open-letter-to-prolife-movement-from.html">An Open Letter to the Prolife Movement, from a Prolifer</a>.</li>
<li>The murder moved commenter vitameme to start <a href="http://vitameme.blogspot.com/">a new blog</a>.</li>
<li>And, this just in, <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/06/10/us/10abortion.html">Tiller&#8217;s clinic will not re-open</a>.  I&#8217;m frightened that this will embolden more assassins.</li>
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		<title>What do we do next?</title>
		<link>http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2009/06/what-do-we-do-next/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 07:09:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen R</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been having a lot of trouble writing this post. On the one hand, I know what I want to suggest. I want to say, we should protest against the murder cheerleaders. We should show them that they are alone, that they are beyond the pale, that they do not have our support, not even [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been having a lot of trouble writing this post.  On the one hand, I know what I want to suggest.  I want to say, we should <a href="http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2007/08/the-best-way-to-deal-with-the-violent-fringe-confront-or-ignore/">protest against the murder cheerleaders</a>.  We should show them that they are alone, that they are beyond the pale, that they do not have our support, not even in our most private thoughts.</p>
<p>The trouble is, I can&#8217;t figure out whether it would help or not.</p>
<p>In my experience, genuinely peaceful pro-lifers can and do issue condemnations all day long and it doesn&#8217;t make a bit of difference to the pro-violence wing.  They hate us and consider us traitors. They don&#8217;t care what we say about them, and they sure as hell won&#8217;t listen. In fact, being denounced by other abortion opponents just serves to highlight to them how much purer they are than everyone else.  <a href="http://ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com/archives/2009/06/violence_and_abortion_providers.php">As janinedm puts it</a>, &#8220;for a certain type of person, the rhetoric gets to the point that the nonviolent approach is also a form of treason and the violence is as much about spiritual purging as it is about the achievement of certain ends.&#8221;</p>
<p>So, I&#8217;m at a loss.  How do you stop people over whom you have no authority and with whom you have no credibility?  Nonetheless, we need to try.  I&#8217;ve seen pro-lifers object to the notion that we have a special responsibility to stop this kind of violence, because it&#8217;s not the fault of people who speak and act peacefully.  I say that something doesn&#8217;t have to be your fault to be your problem.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been thinking of writing to the leaders of the pro-life organizations I belong to and asking them to institute a policy stating that anyone who condones anti-abortion violence is not welcome as a member or a donor.  I don&#8217;t imagine too many advocates of violence are interested in belonging to PLAGAL or Consistent Life anyway, but it would set an example.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m still going to do this, but I&#8217;m not sure how much of an effect it will have.</p>
<p>Several commenters in the previous thread had suggestions for action:<br />
* Catherine brought up the possibility of donating to Tiller&#8217;s church.<br />
* Marysia suggested donating to organizations working against handgun violence.<br />
* Gwendolyn thought that pro-lifers should hold anti-violence vigils.</p>
<p>What are your thoughts?</p>
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		<title>Signal boost: Send a Safe Birthing Kit for $8</title>
		<link>http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2009/04/signal-boost-send-a-safe-birthing-kit-for-8/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 19:57:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen R</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[via Nonviolent Choice: If you have access to the Internet, chances are that even with the global economic downturn, you are still, wherever you may live, prosperous compared to the average person and family in the Two-Thirds World. Are you still able to spare $8? UMCOR, the United Methodist Committee on Relief, will send on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>via <a href="http://nonviolentchoice.blogspot.com/2009/04/send-safe-birthing-kit-for-8.html">Nonviolent Choice</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>If you have access to the Internet, chances are that even with the global economic downturn, you are still, wherever you may live, prosperous compared to the average person and family in the Two-Thirds World.</p>
<p>Are you still able to spare $8? UMCOR, the United Methodist Committee on Relief, will send on your behalf <a href="http://new.gbgm-umc.org/umcor/getconnected/supplies/birthingkit/">a birthing kit</a> to help protect and save the lives of one mother and one baby in a materially poor country.</p>
<p>(Note: UMCOR&#8217;s relief work is something that I suspect people of all faiths and none could support&#8211;not all Christians use relief work as a pretense for prostelytizing by a long shot&#8211;but please check this out for yourself.)</p>
<p>Maternal and child mortality are interconnected global scourges. They are directly caused by the inhumane failure to make widely available even low-tech, inexpensive solutions like birthing kits or oral rehydration therapy to those who most desperately need them.</p>
<p>As UNFPA insists, <a href="http://www.unfpa.org/safemotherhood/mediakit/">&#8220;No Woman Should Die Giving Birth.&#8221;</a>  Please visit this UNFPA site if you want to learn more about this unnecessary, preventable global injustice&#8211;and please be the solution for one mother and one baby through UMCOR.</p>
<p>Large institutional changes in health care are necessary to solve the problem on a massive scale, but individuals and families in the present cry out for direct and immediate help, too.</p>
<p>Surely this is an area where prolife and prochoice can and should cooperate. </p></blockquote>
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		<title>Help needed: LGBT crisis pregnancy manual</title>
		<link>http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2009/03/help-needed-lgbt-crisis-pregnancy-manual/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 19:39:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen R</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[PLAGAL and the Nonviolent Choice Directory are collaborating on a crisis pregnancy manual for the LGBT community. Please check out their survey and see if you can offer any assistance.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.plagal.org/">PLAGAL</a> and the <a href="http://www.nonviolentchoice.info/">Nonviolent Choice Directory</a> are collaborating on a <a href="http://prolifegays.blogspot.com/2009/03/crisis-pregnancy-manual-for-lgbt.html">crisis pregnancy manual for the LGBT community</a>.  Please check out their survey and see if you can offer any assistance.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Abstain, or else no one will believe you if you&#8217;re raped&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2009/02/abstain-or-else-no-one-will-believe-you-if-youre-raped/</link>
		<comments>http://www.turntheclockforward.org/2009/02/abstain-or-else-no-one-will-believe-you-if-youre-raped/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 06:48:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen R</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Via Feministing, an abstinence education horror story. A group called &#8220;Abstinence &#8216;Till Marriage Education&#8221; is receiving $600,000 to provide abstinence-only &#8220;education&#8221; in Ohio. Now, I&#8217;m used to hearing stories about abstinence-only programs calling young people (especially young female people) who have sex impure and possessed of low moral character, or comparing them to chewed gum [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Via <a href="http://community.feministing.com/2009/02/when-rape-culture-meets-abstin.html">Feministing</a>, an abstinence education horror story.</p>
<p>A group called &#8220;Abstinence &#8216;Till Marriage Education&#8221; is receiving $600,000 to provide abstinence-only &#8220;education&#8221; in Ohio.  Now, I&#8217;m used to hearing stories about abstinence-only programs calling young people (especially young female people) who have sex impure and possessed of low moral character, or comparing them to chewed gum or used duct tape.  ATM&#8217;s &#8220;Abstain, or else no one will believe you if you&#8217;re raped&#8221; approach may be a new low, though.</p>
<p>You can see the whole sordid mess at their website, <a href="http://www.missthemess.com/party/index.php">Miss the Mess.com &#8211; Party Rooms</a>.  (ETA: not anymore &#8212; see below)</p>
<p>To summarize briefly: the site tells the story of four teenagers who were at a party.  Two of them leave, and then one (Rochelle) accuses the other (Jason) of having raped her.  The four tell their accounts of what happened.</p>
<p>According to Jason&#8217;s ex-girlfriend, Jason &#8220;expected sex to be part of any relationship he was in&#8221; while &#8220;Rochelle was considered a slut.&#8221;  The viewer is asked whose story is considered the least credible.  I assume you won&#8217;t be surprised when the answer is &#8220;Rochelle.&#8221;  She&#8217;s had sex, you see &#8212; or at least, rumor has it that she&#8217;s had sex, and having rumors going around about you is risky behavior!  (You&#8217;re wondering why having had actual, non-rumored sex doesn&#8217;t destroy Jason&#8217;s credibility, aren&#8217;t you?  What are you, some kind of feminist?)  She also made &#8220;questionable decisions&#8221; &#8212; like driving her drunk friend home from a party when there was a boy who offered to drive him instead.</p>
<p>Interestingly, I&#8217;m looking through the page several hours after I first viewed it, and it appears that ATM have made some quick changes to the public face of their program.  The quiz no longer answers the question of who is considered least credible.  There&#8217;s also now a giant disclaimer at the beginning stating that &#8220;any crime occurring as a result of risky decision [sic] is still a crime and ATM Education strongly encourages teens to seek a trusted adult or notify the proper authorities in such cases.&#8221;</p>
<p>Good luck getting anyone to believe you though, slut.</p>
<p>(You can <a href="http://www.whitehouse.gov/contact/">contact the White House</a> to ask President Obama to remove funding for programs like this when he submits his proposed budget to Congress.)</p>
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